Why To Pretend?

Always when two people are building a relationship under

certain pressure they keep them selves in distance or tho it's

plain to see for everyone else around them what's going on.

So you actually aren't hiding anything from anyone.

The weirdest thing is the female involved thinks she is doing it 

for the better deed, but actually she is just causing pain to the 

other person, causing him to be almost depressed and 100%

reserved, it's impossible for him to relax. It's similar to the other

side, accept as I said she believes that's all in the name of something

greater, to prevent the pain of others.

This is not about me! But a recently good friend. I hate to see any

of my friends in a state like that. I gave him some advice, told him

to step up and end the pain of his and hers by a simple action,

so he did. But it was hard to convince him cause he has started to

believe that this relationship is impossible for some unknown reason to him.

But if he says to me that he cant live without her, he cant go a day without

seeing her and just cant stop thinking about her, I believe you have answered

your own question. Now the whole point of me telling you this is...

Sometimes there is no point to protect others from the inevitable 

and if you choose to do so, why? 

To destroy yourself and let the effects of that decision reflect upon

the rest of your life like me? I did it and I think it helped me to grow

as a person. But if you choose to do so you are a fool!

There always is light at the end of the tunnel.

Now I will put out a cigarette on this page, and please think about this 

a minute or two.

Māris. K.

03/09/2010